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My husband is annoyed that his really weird cousin is posting pictures of his father's grave all over FB..?

My husband has this really strange cousin. She has put herself and her 2 children in a horrible position, nearly homeless due to her laziness. Yet she has the time to sit on Facebook for hours uploading pictures and annoying people. She has an entire album dedicated to pictures of deceased family member grave's. She has put up multiple pictures of his father's grave, who passed when he was a child. I kind of see why he is upset seeing as she was never close to any of them, but on the other hand I'm not sure I quite understand. Should we politely ask she take them down? And how can I make him feel better? I've never lost a parent and sometimes I feel unsure about how to make him feel better about things related to his father's untimely death. Thanks for your answer so far! This woman has some serious mental issues. He doesn't want problems with her but I'm not afraid to ask her to remove them. I'm tired of her craziness and seeing him sad really upsets me. I can't imagine the pain he has felt losing his father at such a young age. I thought posting pictures of graves was strange as well.. some people are so strange. Oh and yes sadly the kids would be better off with the state. The oldest has been extremely sick lately (vomiting constantly) and they can't seem to find the problem. I think its depression related due to basically being homeless and her constantly saying how they can't eat and all the other insane things she says and does. Instead of going to get a job she just sits online and complains about it.

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Yes he has every right to ask her to take them down! That's just weird! And maybe just be there for him! Listen to him! And let him vent on you!
Honestly, if I lost a parent, I wouldn't want ANYONE to posts pictures of the grave other than ME. I would politely ask her ot take them down because if does upset your husband. I find that so inconsiderate! Just support him as much as possible and remind him that is father would be proud of the man he is and the family he has. Honestly, I would have been furious!
thats something hes has to do when hes ready.now far as the cousin .it all bout attention and try to get paybackfor what i dont know ..but i do know for sure she will lose her kids ..
what a creep.. tell her to take them off and grow up.