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What should I do? I'm attracted to this guy! Help please!?

When I say "attracted", I don't mean that I think he's hot or cute (I'm engaged). I mean that I'm just...drawn to him. These hella weird pictures of me and him being best friends keep popping up in my mind, and it's weird, but it's true. I guess I like him because he's different and just cool in his own way. I mean, c'mon, he wears suspenders--how sick is that??!!! XD So do you guys have any idea why I'm feeling this way? What should I do? If you read the details, I'm engaged, and I don't think he's cute or hot. I just wanna be friends with him, but I've only talked to him once. If you read the details, I'm engaged, and I don't think he's cute or hot. I just wanna be friends with him, but I've only talked to him once.

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1. You should go out for a couple dates. If you have a good time and you get along, then you are happy and attracted to him. If you go out and have a bad time, then he is not a good boyfriend and then break up. You won't know until you try.
2. It's about feelings and that's normal ! let me tell you my story and hope it's gonna help: I have a girl friend, we are now for about 5 years together; we are planning to to get married. She is different from any other girl I have met and she believes that same way and that's why are together. But about a year ago during the summer time, I went out with friends and my girl couldn't make it but that time we went to a friend's cottage in a little village. I met his family and his sister who is my age. My story is a little bit different from yours but I had crush on that girl after she told me she is an artist and loves visual arts ( im a big fan of visual arts ) .. imagine when you talk to someone who understands you immediately ! I felt I was talking to ME !! I do have some stuff in common with my girl friend but this one beside that I feel she got my very well .. she has a personality that I felt it's different and very attractive and weird at the same time ! I can't explain how was it but I felt it was a mixture of friendship and love !! I couldn't categorize her if she would be a friend or a crush !! I stayed there for 3 days ! her bother noticed that I was talking about her too much !! I never noticed that through myself but she was unique. I asked if she has a facebook but she told me she doesn;t like these sites ! when I went back to town, I wake up and i see her in my mind and i remember all the fun time I had in their cottage ! sight !! i wish my girl friend was like her ! but i know this was just a crush .. it might hurt and last longer than I expected but I knew it was crush but weird one ! i think urs is similar to mine, you are on crush but a unique crush ! it could last long but it will go away sooner or later