My Funny Picture - Am I attractive (pics included)?

Am I attractive (pics included)?

I cannot stand how I look, to the point where I have never had a girlfriend, never dated anyone for more than 3-4 weeks (I always broke up with them), and have pretty much relegate myself to being alone. None of the girls I dated were much in the way of looks, intelligence, or personality anyway, which has led me to believe I can't get an attractive girl...the ones I dated seemed like they'd date anyone without a felony on their record. There really isn't much, if anything, anyone can do to make me feel better about my looks...in fact, I tend to resent the rare compliment I get and I don't want to date a girl who finds someone like me attractive. I don't want to date girls who love a big bald guy. For the record, I am 33 yrs old, 6'3", 252 lbs. I started losing my hair at 17 and am now pretty much bald, and I'm not one of those guys susceptible to the "bald can be attractive" belief. I resent my height and build and hate being bald...especially because, at best, it's seen as uber-masculine in some sort of "mature" way. I think big bald men look stupid. Worse, I get most commonly seen as a football player, which makes me feel awful since football players are usually seen as big tough guys. I just wonder if anyone knows what I can do to deal with this. I think about it all the time and then I get depressed when I realize that there isn't really a way to make myself look good. I envy attractive people all the time and feel like I am pretty much left out of most things. I'm posting a link to pictures just to show what I'm talking about...I don't think I'm hideously ugly, but I sure am not attractive. And since everyone asks, the animal in my lap is an opossum...a friend of mine does wildlife rehab and was trying to get it ready to go back into the wild. It had been someone's pet and they overfed it, hence it looking weirder than usual. http://s385.photobucket.com/home/curseofdolkite/index

Public Comments

Stop thinking like that!!! It's not going to get you a girlfriend!!! I personally would not date you, only because I'm many years younger than you. But I know a lot of people that would. And the opossum is sooooooooooooooo cute!!! <3 Ahaha... ~~~Good Luck~~~
man im telling u u r HAWT! but r u attractive? no, becuz it seems ur personality isnt very good :/ u need to believe in urself buddy, then the girls and guys will be hitting on you like youre a boxing post ;)
You shouldn't think like that! Be confident in yourself. You are definitely NOT ugly! You wouldn't have got any dates in the first place if you were ugly. Trust me, most girls do not date people for no reason at all. Tell yourself that you love yourself a lot. That probably sounds really really corny, but you should. If you think like that, you will end up alone. Be confident!! Have a sweetness day!! P.S. That opossum is adorable!
Stop being a cry baby. That's not helping you for sure. You're not unattractive. So get that right out of your head. But if nothing can make you change how you feel about yourself I don't know why you are posting up here.
Yes.