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Ladies...What if someone sent you this?

What if you had went out on a date with a guy that you've know for over a year and you knew he had a roommate and u knew it was his ex and you were fine with it, u trusted him and when u were over at his place, and you heard her tell him she loved him and u got upset and left and told him not to contact you until his ex is totally out of his life and a week later, he sends you these two things: (here's some pics) http://a764.g.akamai.net/f/764/16742/1h/www.1800flowers.com/800f_assets/images/flowers/images/shop/catalog/33328869z.jpg http://a764.g.akamai.net/f/764/16742/1h/www.1800flowers.com/800f_assets/images/flowers/images/shop/catalog/2286z.jpg (1: your favorite flowers) (2: a cute sad puppy dog stuffd animal) and a note that said "SHE'S GONE, WOULD U JOIN ME FOR DINNER? CALL ME" WHAT WOULD YOU FEEL/THINK AND WOULD YOU TAKE HIM BACK? THE DAY THIS ALL HAPPENED AND I left, THE GUY TRIED CALLING ME 4-5 TIMES THAT NIGHT AND KEPT HANGING UP ON HIM... it's been a week and now outta nowhere he sends this, FEDEX Brought it over

Public Comments

1. He did nothing wrong! You chose to be OK with the fact that she was there in the first place. You chose to get mad over HER saying something to him that you were not meant to hear! Did you hear him say this back to her? He seems to be trying to get you back, I wouldn't myself because you have no self esteem and that's a turn off for me but he wants you back, You need to go for it and stop playing games
2. The least you could do is talk to the guy it sounds like he's trying? Meet for dinner and find out whats going on and how the relationships going to work. At the very least you get a free meal!!
3. well if she moved out, then i'd say go back out with him. HE didn't say HE loved her, so I would say the issue is in her, not the guy you are dating. She just hasn't got over him, but as long as she is moved out, I wouldn't worry about it any longer. but on the other hand, if you don't think you can handle this other female still loving him, then move on and let him find someone else...even though you could be missing out (if he is sending you your favorite flowers without you having to ask, that is pretty sweet).
4. personally real flowers and a picture without 30% off in the corner aint the best thing in the world to win back a girlfriend.tell him he has to make more of an effort and if he really cared he would of tried to get hold of you that weekend instead of staying at his flat with his ex.
5. if i was in that situation....i'd feel it out. let him take you out. let him take you back to his place. make sure she's completely out of the picture. give it some time, and take it slow. if you see that shes out of the picture, then give him a -real- chance, and dont bring up his ex. if shes not out of the picture, then trash it. you shouldnt have to battle an ex (AND a roommate) for his attention. you should be the only person he focuses on. she needed to move out anyways. ex's shouldnt live together. but jus try it, see if its worth it. and if he makes you happy, then make it work! good luck!
6. sounds like to me that he is just trying to brive u back by showing u pics of flowers and stuff animals. I really don't believe that she is gone. I think that he wants u to believe that she is b/c to be truthful she isn't. Most guys lie to girls just to get them back in ther lives and if she is gone it want be for long. So no I wouldn't take him back.
7. I don't think i would have liked the comment that the ex/roommate made but instead of storming out you probably should have asked him about it later and told him although you were ok with them living together you were under the impression that they were just roommates and it made you uncomfortable to hear her say that to him. Then say although i trust you i don't feel comfortable with the living situation anymore so I'm going to remove myself from the picture until you have a new roommate. Communication is the key for every relationship
8. wow.. that's sweet. i won't think twice. i'll take him back. if he still loves his "ex", you're not reading that note. you're not shockingly staring with that cute pics, to think that he still have a choice. he can choose his "ex" who's living in the same roof with him but i guess he didn't. if you love him, fight for it. go and have dinner with him. goodluck and happy hearts day!