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Could I actually be a lesbian?? :\?

For some reason, I don't find men attractive, I don't really enjoy men's company and I feel aggrevated around them BUT I thought I was just sexist. But truthfully, I don't find men even the slightest bit attractive, I don't even find one male celebrity attractive, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, they do nothing for me, but I thought I was just a girl who wasn't that much into looks. I sometimes wonder why teen girls love boys so much. But I do find some females OVERLY attractive, for example Megan Fox, Adriana Lima, Kim Kardashian, Angelina Jolie, Scarlett Johansson, ect... to me, men look rough and just not hot... even the thought of kissing a guy makes me feel kind of sick and I can picture it feeing weird because of facial hair/stubble. I get soooooooooo confused when girls are boy crazy, I can't relate to them, they annoy me. This is what worries me most, I'm 19 and a virgin, but I was thinking, If I saw a man naked I'd be sooooooooooooooooooooooo scared, I'd actually RUN, and I'm being serious, naked men scare me SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much, I know this sounds stupid but they really do scare me... especially if he had a big... If I were to be honest, I've had guys chasing me since I was really young but it offends me, when guys like me I get mad, not flattered. I actually thought this was normal and this is how all girls thought but I was speaking to my friends and it isn't how they think at all... they actually find men attractive. I thought I was a non-boy crazy girl but I guess I'm a lesbian? Do you think I am? Wow, I sound like I'm 12 because naked men scare me... OOK... I reallllllllllly don't know why naked men scare me, they just do :\ I'm confused about this myself. And by the way I rushed this question and I'm tired. Of course I don't WANT to be a lesbian. I think it's penis that scares me.

Public Comments

1. You sounds like a twelve year old
2. yes
3. You're a lesbian :)
4. heres what u need to do invite some girls over for the night take lots of pictures and send them to me ill judge for you
5. What do you think? It's your decision, do you WANT to be lesbian or do you WANT to be attracted to men, maybe you just didn't find the guy you really like yet.
6. Yes. -btw that would be awesome if you are
7. you sound like a bore !
8. here is what you have to do meet with me and ill remove your virginity then you will be a straight beautiful cut girl that hunts porn
9. I'm the same way sort of, I just don't find naked men to be extremely scary, just.. not attractive, really. Have you had any abusive experiences with guys? If you have then maybe you should just give them another try, make sure it's someone that won't hurt you mentally or physically. If you are a lesbian, it's not a bad thing. Sometimes thinking "I'm a lesbian" makes it sound worse than just thinking "I like girls" even though it's the same thing obv. I think you just need to work on accepting yourself if you are gay- there's nothing wrong with it. Good luck.
10. I used to feel like that too... I never understood what all of my friends saw in boys. But then when I was around 15 or 16 I realised I was actually a lesbian, and my feelings made a lot more sense... so I would say you probably are a lesbian.
11. youre kinda old to not find men attractive by now. Id be quick to just call u dike but seeing as ur a virgin u cant fully appreciate men for all their useful purposes. try it first, then u can make a decision.
12. From the sounds of it I would say you are most definley a lesbian as guys dont turn you on at all if you were not a lesbian you would at least find a few guys hot and be turned on by them reguardless of the penis (unless you had a very bad experience with a guy or penis when you were very young that put you off) Just embrace who you are and be proud of it, it will be scary for you going through this for the first time and every gay women feels the same You should join your local LGBT support group and meet women who feel the same as you