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how would you react if your girlfriend took these pictures with another guy? (pics)?

heyy. so i guess my boyfriend was looking through my old photo albums on facebook yesterday and he saw a couple pictures, some from 2008 and some from 2009 when i was around 14 or 15. they were mostly of me at the beach with a good friend of mine who's a guy. we're really close and he knows pretty much everything about me. we're best friends. some of them were pictures of me in a bathing suit around him and just having fun at the beach, well my boyfriend is now reallyyyy mad at me over the pictures. he gets jealous really easily :/ and now he hasn't been answering my texts for the passed day. if your girlfriend had these pictures on her facebook with another guy, how would you react? what should i do? these are kinda old, back when i dyed my hair light brown when i was in maybe 10th grade. i'm warning you, some of these pictures are kinda weird/crazy... don't judge :) thanks for answering ♥ oh and no comments telling me to gain some weight pleaseeee. http://s585.photobucket.com/albums/ss292/iloveryanx15/ ^^ this is just an old photobucket account. it's only the pics where i'm at the beach. haha nooo it was way after. we've been together since first grade hwen he asked me to be his girlfriend ♥♥♥ but we were more like just friends until like middle school. the thing is that we were dating when these pictures were taken...

Public Comments

1. What a totally irrational way for your boyfriend to react! Say they were old photos and that he was your FRIEND. There weren't ever any feelings of more than friendship either way. Tell him that you don't like that he doesn't trust that you like him (him being your boyfriend) and have some "thing" for this other guy (which youdon't)
2. Kind of immature for him to be mad about you taking the pictures (unless you guys were together) but why do you have them posted on your facebook anyway? Especially since they're so old, why keep them up there? Anyway you're 17 now? Call me in a year ;). lololololololololol
3. I'm not a guy, but it does look kind of inappropriate, like he is grabbing you and stuff. I could see why he is not too happy with them.
4. well im not a guy, but i would really take those down. Im sure your bf feels disrespected by those pics and i wouldn't blame him. Just think if he had pics of a chick friend touching him all over up on his Profile, how would you feel?
5. well hes ur friend u shouldnt delete them just because he doesnt like them. i wouldnt make my girlfriend erase them or i wouldnt get mad, id just tell her i didnt like them and would prefer if i didnt see them. if i didnt know details i would have thought he was ur boyfriend tho, and i know i wouldnt want people to think my girlfriend was with somebody else.
6. Well, if these pics were takin' before you two got together then I wouldn't even worry about it. Tell him to get over it and if he doesn't then you need to get over him. How long have you two been together? Have you ever gave him a reason to act like this? If you haven't been together long and he is always like this then I think you need to find someone better because it most likely won't last. You can't choose him over your BF female or male... Personally, I would tell him to grow up. BTW no need to gain weight, be yourself. Never change for someone else...
7. nice tits for a 14 year old
8. If i were in this position i would too wonder why he is tripping off of these pictures from 08 and 09 if they were years old, but if you were with your current boyfriend during the time i could see where he is coming from with this. He probably has a bit of insecurity going on with him. Make sure you let him know i would suggest calling him a few times or wait a day or so until he cools off and explain to him that this guy you took pictures with long ago was a best friend and you don't see him as anything else. Assure your boyfriend that he is truely the one you want to be with,
9. as long as nothing is going on between you both now then i'd be fine with it. its the past, you werent together then so why should it matter? me best mate told me that a month before me and my GF got together they had a one night stand. did i leave my GF? do i hate my best mate? no i dont coz its the past and shit happens
10. i can see why he is mad..i mean y'all look to be more than just friends.but i guess in the end he should be able to trust your word and is over reacting a bit.but for his sake you should take the pictures off of your facebook.you dont have to delete them for good,save them on a folder in your computer.. but just take them down off of fb.it will save you a lot of trouble.
11. I'd be pissed. I'd be jealous. And that's probably how he feels. He's probably not going to say he's jealous but yeah. Even if two you were just friends in the pictures no guy is going to want to see that while they're dating you. I mean really, what if he was the guy in the picture and that was some other girl? You might say you wouldnt care, but I dont think that would be cool with you. They should be taken off of facebook.
12. i am a girl but if my guy would have pictures with another girl like the once you have, well ill get a bit jealous, its not really the jealous part that he is getting mad at its da thing that you have pictures with other guys on your faccebook but clearly your going out wit yur bf. its a kinda disrespect to your bf, i think that that is why he is mad, you should respect that you guys are together nd delete those pictures or something. talk to him
13. His jealousy stems from insecurity, he doesn't like seeing you with anyone else because he's afraid of losing you. This is probably a good thing, you should probably be more worried when he doesn't care about other guys touching you like that.
14. If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't be too impressed some of those pictures on your facebook. Regardless of the story behind them......if it really bothers your boyfriend, remove them! Who and what is more important to you? It's inappropriate!