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Im so sick of this!!!!!!!! REALLY LONG QUESTION 10 POINTS!?

this is undeniably going to be long ive asked a million questions about this certain person and i realized you cant fully understand the situation unless your there and therefore he somewhat comes off as a player theres this senior in my guitar class and my first day of school he was extremely friendly giving me hugs,showing me around school and all that i asked my firned about him and she said she downright hated him because apparently he came up to her and jokingly rapped his arm around her and after my first day for a few weeks he kind of ignored me until one day he came up and said "i dont hang out with you enough" and for the next few days he was bent on teaching me a new song the next 3 days i was sick and couldnt go to school i found him on myspace and added him later that night he called me on the phone and would say things like how cute it was when i blushed and that when he saw me he could swear he thought i was at least 16 and that he called me "jailbait" he would also say how cute it was when i blushed or giggled and shortly after said he couldnt believe he was flirting with a freshmen then he continued to say how i should really go to school tomorrow and that guitar wasnt the same without me and after alot of persuading i said OK The next day i dragged my butt out of bed and he met me at the school door saying "your not allowed to go to the wall" (thats where i sit in the morning) and we just walked around talking and everyday since then (its been a few weeks ago) we hang out in guitar and he does things like nonstop tickle me or lay his head on my lap or just randomly poke me or pick me up when i least expect it and he would play songs on guitar (hes really good) and while i would stare at his fingers hed be looking at my face and because i said i was fat (i know i am a little) he would poke my stomach and say "your too pretty to be fat" then a couple of weeks ago i trusted my guy friend and told him that i liked the senior and he went and toold him he said that he cant because he could go to jail and then the same day he posted a picture with s girl on homecoming with a caption like "thats my babe" or something and i went to her profile and she had a bunch of pictures of him saying that he was her boyfriend and i was shocked and depressed but the next day i acted like nothing had happened and have been for a week but just today i was browsing through the girls pictures and she had one of him and her kissing and that . . . right there is what just was like the final straw and i broke down and cried realizing that i liked him A LOT more than originally planned and he moved me to his top 3 on myspace he always calls me his "best friend" and stuff but i dont know what i should do confront him? or would i sound weird if he really didnt like me?? what would i say??? i know he sounds like a player but . . . its hard to explain he REALLIZES that if he did anything he could get in trouble and he goes to church and is honestly not like that and i know i should just forget him but itsmuch easier said then done because he does make me happier than ive been in a very very long time and to just let that go would be near impossible

Public Comments

1. Guys suffer from having tunnel vision so whatever makes this guy feel good at the moment is what he's into. Right now it seems to be you and why would he tell you about another girl if he doesn't have to? It's a classic player move: you present yourself as something too great to miss out on, thus falling for the bait, and while you wait for him to commit to you he still has a girl on the side. You're not morally or ethically obligated to do anything for him. You're not his girlfriend, you're just a friend who makes him happy for the moment. If you're smart, and I believe you are, you'll do one of two things: 1. Ask him to commit to you and dump the other girl because you feel strongly about him. or 2. Let him go because you, as a person, have needs as well and if he's not meeting your needs or is just using you then the friendship isn't true and you don't need to be around people who aren't true friends.