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What would u do if u were in my place!?

I met this Man who is so wonderful, so carrying, he treats me as a queen. He told me that he loves me ( but me I still don't have love feelings to him) but I really admire him, he is so good and a real gentleman and not to mention how loyal he is. Once I went to his personal web site just being curious..and I was watching his albums when suddenly I saw an album called "being down", it was weird so I opened it and I could see lots of pictures of a woman with a masked man, the woman was like a BDSM mistress, one of the pictures she was ridding the man like a horse, other picture she was standing on the man's back..and other picture she was beating him.. it was crazy.. That made me confused...was he treating me like a Queen or like a mistress!!!.. he loves me and I really admire this man still doesn't love him..and he knows that.. and I want to be closer to him but.. the pictures made me so confused! I'm not that kind of girl who likes to beat up a man like that ! or treat him in that sick way! after that I told him what I saw, and he told me "Ok, if the pics bothers u I'll delete them" and he did! and then he asked my hand for marriage.. I'm just confuse.. I really respect the guy for his good manners but.. the pictures is so weird.. what would u do if u were in my place? PS: in cause that u r wondering I never had sex with him, I believe in clean relationship tell marriage I did ask him about the pics, he told me it's just pics..

Public Comments

1. id ask him about the pics
2. To begin with, any and all relationship or a gamble. In the end you never know what type of person you will truly get. He must get some type of enjoy from looking at this pictures... but what type is the question. He may think they are just funny or sexy. This question only needs to be answered if you are serious about him. Are you? If you are, then find out if it is truly something he is into... but I caution you...he knows that you are freaked out by the pictures already... so getting a straight answer out of him may be difficult. Therefore, my best suggestion is to give him the benefit of the doubt. You said yourself he treats you great. He could be a great guy who thinks those pictures are strange but interesting. As well, he may have no desire to partake in such behavior. Side bar: You could find a different great guy down the road who APPEARS to have no interest in pictures or behavior like that and he could end up being a child molester. My point is you just never know!! But to answer your question... You said his is treating you wonderfully right now... I would continue dating this fellow until I am sure he is the real thing (my one and only nice guy) or I decide he isn't the guy for me. However, I would not condemn this guy just because he had these photos as of yet... Let he screw up or not, your relationship before you decide he is or is not a true slave to that behavior. I wish you good luck