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I'm the shy "fat" guy?

How can I ever get a girl, I'm 19 years old, six feet tall, 235 pounds. I feel so insecure around girls that look like their about the size of my leg haha. Once I get comfortable around people I'm no longer shy, but meeting new people I hold myself back, and I've been told I'm funny and random. I used to weigh 315 pounds, I started going to the gym and got down to 235ish in about 7 months. I still want to lose about 25 pounds, and I've been lifting weights. My confidence is higher, but I'm just not a conversationalist, I can never think of anything to talk about. so some random pictures of me: http://img399.imageshack.us/img399/271/n5618395924494506535bd3.jpg http://img516.imageshack.us/img516/5152/n5618395923140056144vx4.jpg http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/6003/n5618395924055328214qb8.jpg BEFORE AND AFTER picture: (just weighed myself, now 234 not 239) http://img511.imageshack.us/img511/5744/beforeafter3gj4.png

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DUDE i thought when you described yourself to be a fatass you aint fat your just a little chubby, i guess what you gotta do is go out more with friends and start just familiarizing yourself with other things, your personality will change and youll feel better and also you should stop thinking like the way you are, pretend you are NOT insecure and maybe youll just stop being it
Your actually really good looking. When I clicked on your pictures I thought I would see a great big guy that looked like Jabba the hut or something! Which is not the case at all! Get your confidence up, meet new people you mentioned you go to a gym; so why not join a class there, or swimming? Oh and trust me, you have no reason to feel insecure around girls... All the best! Catherine xx
Wow, now THAT's determination, you lost a ton of weight and I think a lot of it's muscle now. You should be really confident about yourself because it seems like you can be really into something when you put your mind to it. Do that when you talk to girls and I bet it won't be a problem at all. Girls love complements, just check out what she's wearing and say something nice but not in a sensual way to start a conversation. If she's a nice girl she'll have something to say and you'll have your conversation right there! Good luck!
You arent fat! Your about on average for your height. Maybe a lil under.
Truly, I don't think you need to loose any more weight. I actually think you have lost a little too much. Your face was so much more attractive when you were bigger. I think you should stop trying to alter your appearance and try to work on your confidence. You have don't what a lot of people can't do when you lost that weight and I do commend you. It's just in my opinion I think you have lost a little to much.
woah dude im proud you shouldnt be insecure either i always just tell myself no matter how stupid i look in front of the people i meet at least they will know the real me
Honey, it sounds to me like your shyness is holding you back. Girls, like a big strong man, but they also like a confident man. You have to give yourself credit for your hard work in getting in shape. Be proud of what you have accomplished and your confidence will attract the ladies. There is a fine line between confident and cocky, make sure you don't cross that line cause it's like repellent to the girls. Confidence is the key!
A lot of us girls like big, strong, manly guys...we feel safe being with you! We also like guys who carry themselves with pride. You need to let your confidence take over...heck, the NFL linebackers sure don't have a problem getting girls!
Is this a joke?? You are goodlooking!! Go out there and get your girl!!! xxx
I am going to jsut assume that you might likea girl who has seen you from 315 to 235 and if it is so then this is what i would suggest: Start to talk to her but not ONLY her talk to more girls get to know a few but by no means make it a big deal to talk to them. If your going out with a bunch of people including a few girls then call the girl you like and ask her is she wants to come down. If you got MSN and so does she then read her name now and again (same with facebook or myspace) read her 'thoughts' and then comment on them. Also if its late at night and she is online then talk to her and say stuff like "what you doing up sp late" and then be caring and say stuff like get some sleep or you wont keep your great smile - or something like that i cant really tell you what to say. you have really changed and people DO notice these things, keep at it even after you get a GF because keeping your body fit and healthy is always a good thing to do. Good luck dude hope everything works out for you
go to school get a good car like a Audi a large bank account, a great Stable job enjoy your life, be active as you grow older and wiser you'll start thinking on things to say, stop being coy and shy it will bring you nothing:. travel go to europe, and london, stop worrying about the slut next door you might even get a swedish girlfriend. but if you sit in the gym all day you'll just meet gay guys:.
You are really good looking. You have nothing to worry about. You made it sound like you are fat but you arent. You are about the right size for your age. My brother is like exactly like you. EXACTLY. He is like 18 but he weighs about as much as you do. he is also about 6 feet tall. He is self-contious about his weight too. If he is younger than you and he weighs the same, you are not fat. because he is a normal weight for his age. Try to go to more family get-togethers. I fyou are talking to people you already know, you can bild confidence. Weight lift- girls love it.
you're not ugly, and you're not fat either, at least doesn't look like it. pft of course you can get a girl, just boost your confidence upp!