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Why are guys such insensitive jerks and what to do when you love one?

(Guys please read, you might agree with me on this one) I really do love my boyfriend, in the beginning, two years ago not Genesis, he seemed like a sweetheart. He brought me flowers when he'd run laps in PE and then give them to me in our 6th period Bio class, give me cards draw me pics write me dirty rap songs, but whatever that was then, and now... Well, we got in a fight, obviously not our first one, awhile back because he blew me off when I made him dinner, just go here it's rather funny and it'll explain it http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsbRtIvU6jSru.GuqJ9QVfHty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090911190230AAdWQ7a We also went to the fair this weekend together for the first time. I had explicitly told him I wanted to be kissed on top of the ferris wheel, be won a big stuffed animal, and given cotton candy, yes I know it sucks the romance out of it but otherwise it would never happen, although it never happened anyways. We went on the ferris wheel.... nothing. I sent him an email, text, and IM, not including all the times I've told him to his face my idea of a perfect day at the fair. He didn't do any of it. We have bee going through a rough time and I just wanted to see if he cared enough about us to just try, just to put in a little bit of effort, to see if he thought I was worth it. And of course I'm not going to remind him while were there, I had to go into the bathroom and cry, so actually talking about it with him was out of the question if I wanted to avoid crying on the tilt a whirl. And the final straw, I was wearing a top that is ridiclously low cut and it buttons and ties in the front, I would never wear it w/o something under it unless I was also in a swim suit. And that night I was wearing a white cami underneath. When the strings came undone my friend Ashlee made a joke about this not being mexico (racist? no, she's mexican) and then my bf made a comment that I always dress like a slut. Which is so not f**&%$g fair because I have D's almost bigger and yet without them I could wear a medium in AE or Buckle, which is like a small at target. NO matter what I wear, even a big t-shirt I look like this freak http://www.fancydress.com/resources/ecommerce/images/products/135/134/img134135/product-enlarged.jpg - I'm only 18 and when I get out of college and get the money I want a huge breast reduction. Like a small C, I have to go to the chiropractor 3x a month. Anyways, that's off topic, I want him to see this thread so he can get an outside opinion of what a jerk he is...

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1. I get the impression you dont love him anymore, your clearly not happy anymore and its time to end the relationship and move on. Maybe the threat of ending might make him realise to treat you better. Although it doesn't seem like he cares much anymore for the relationship. I know is scary to end a long term relationship but you will be fine and youl be a lot happier. It also wont be long until you meet someone new.