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How do I overcome being constantly jealous and paranoid?

I have been with my partner on and off for about 2 years now. We have a 7 month old son together and also a 2 year old daughter she has from another relationship. I am sooo in love with this girl... Which is weird for me... I find it hard to tell people how I feel and have never been in this situation before... Plus we are both sooo different... I am laid back, cuddly and was brought up in a middle class family in London whilst she is the total opposite. (From a council estate etc...) The reason I write is because I keep findng myself becoming increasingly jealous and paranoid about silly little things and to be honest its making me ill... I have never been jealous of anyone before... In the past I have bene a bit of a player and have picked girls up and put them down again at the drop of a hat but with my current partner its different. I HATE her having male friends and when we are not together I spend the whole time wondering what she is doing, texting and ringing her and building sick pictures in my mind as ro what she could be doing.... I mean I even get annoyed when she says hello to someone on facebook poker I hate feeling like this. I am sure she hates me being like this..I have never been cheated on, but have been stabbed in the back a few times in the past which has put my confidence low but I put on a front and get on with it. I have infact cheated on her in the past which she knows about but she inturn has never done anything to hurt me... I really dont know what to do... Any advice would be great This has been posted for an hour and not one reply... Thanks a bunch!!

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1. Im a girl and Im alot like that, your just insecure. Its understandable because you love her and the though of her liking somoen else makes you paranoid. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel and if she loves you she should understand (: I hope it works out between you two (: