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Our 'friend' is acting really, really weird ...?

Okay, so there's me (let's call me Alice) and my friend (uh, Rachel). Well, we're very very VERY close. We tell each other just about everything. Anyway, there's this girl, (er ... let's say her name's Tina) and she's been our friends for a while. But recently she's been acting REALLY odd ... sort of lesbian-ish. Why do I think this? Because: she sent my friend Rachel a request on Facebook to have their statuses displayed as "Engaged to Rachel ____ / Engaged to Tina ____"! And then, Tina commented on one of Rachel's pictures and said "I'll send you an inbox about it Sunshine". I mean wth?!?! Help, please. PS. She has some like mental 'problems'. Sorta. Basically: her dad was married to another woman and had kids with her, but left her for Tina's mom. He married Tina's mom, and they had three kids: the oldest (Terra) the middle (Tammy) and the youngest, who is Tina. Anyway, their mom has had some sickness or something. She gets depressed and is just very upset all the time and has some ongoing 24/7 cold/fever or something. It started after she delivered Terra. Anyway, Terra got lots of attention and then Tammy came along. The mom took care of Terra but still gave Tammy a bit of attention, though she started getting sick. The dad gave Tammy the attention she missed from her mom and well they got really close. Tina came last and is kind of depirved of all of that as her mom's sick and her dad is very close to Tammy. So I think she has some attention-related disorder or something. idk. thanks for reading all this! :]

Public Comments

1. it sounds like you and 'Rachel' are over analyzing all this. Tina could be pondering homosexuality She could be experiencing some kind of depression brought on by her parents. She could be having mental 'problems' But you don't know. So, you and Rachel should stop 'guessing' what her problems might be, and just appreciate her as a wacky and sometimes strange girl. If she's acting like a lesbian, then just say "hey, that's not my thing". If her family life gets a little hectic and scary, be there to listen to her. If she seriously needs some counseling maybe you could suggest it.