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I'm 13, almost 14 so is this weird?

I've never been drunk before, tried drugs, kissed a guy on the lips, I don't date guys, and I don't like those parties that people do stupid things at. Is this weird? I have a lot of friends, and I have no enemies, I have different interests such as dance, gymnastics, animals, taking pictures, hanging out with friends and family, and just being a normal teen! Please Help:P

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haha yeah that really good actually you dont need drugs, alcohol, kisses or dates to make you happy, despite peer pressure :P
you are doing a great job stay that way more teens should be like you
That's not weird...that's SMART. Good for you for staying away from the things that will do nothing for your future. :)
.... I've only been drunk like once and that was a STUPID mistake;) Never done drugs I've only kissed ONE guy on the lips I've only dated one guy..last year:S I have three GOOD friends. I have no enemies.. I like singing,drawing and reading oh and listening to music I consider myself a normal teen:).. I'm 14 trust me your fine!
Why would it be weird that your not sleepin around and getting wasted every weekend with all the other loosers? NO its not weird, its good! keep it up! you dont need that crap! Merry Christmas!
i am confused
Oh Santa Loves You what would you like for christmas honey...
haha no its totally not. The whole dating kissing thing thats your preference but its definitely good that you haven't been drunk or done drugs. Seriously, you should try really hard to stay away from them. Im 15 and haven't even come close to trying drugs. I've had alcohol but only on New Years and I've never been drunk. btw: taking pictures is so fun! haha I love it! A lot of people like photography they just sometimes don't admit it because it doesn't make them look the coolest.
No its not weird that just means u dont give in on perpresurre and thats good cous there are alot of teens that are getting Pregnent and Dying cous of Drinking and driving.... im 15 and ive done alot of things i regret... so if ur not doing anything that u dont want to do then thats good
It is certainly not weird to have never been drunk at 13 and it's not weird to have never done drugs or kissed a guy. In fact none of the things you mentioned are weird not to do. In fact I have never done drugs or been drunk before and I am 16! And my friend has never kissed a guy or dated before and she is 17! So don't worry. Its great you have friends and different interests. I'd concentrate on enjoying yourself and your teenage years rather than worrying about whether you should have tried drugs by now. I don't think I'll ever try drugs. It's not really a clever thing to do. Good Luck and enjoy being a teenager!
Na ah honey, you're being very smart in fact: you've risen above the sterotypical teen experience and have better, more productive interests. Don't worry, and don't fall for peer pressure because you feel you're too different from what others seem to be doing. :) xox
no its not weird good job be a good girl
Wow. Yeah, that's smart. Ive gotten drunk like 10 times. Ive done drugs like 20 times. Ive done more than kissing countless of times. Ive daed like 10 guys. I love parties. I have alot of friends. 2 true ones. I have like 2 enemies. Uhmm, I like to drink, do drugs, party, hang out with guys,read, and write. I am 15 going on 16. You're doing a whole lot bettee than I am. Count your blessings and don;t slip up. I am going down a bad road and I kind of like it. Don;t be like me.
People will say "Thats not weird, your better than most", but while you ARE on a good path, MOST teens are like you. Most 13 year olds havent tried drugs or been drunk! Only trashy, messedup ones! You have your whole life to experiment (with sex or partying) and now is the time in your life that you should enjoy sports and friends and not be worrying! Quit fretting over things and enjoy this peaceful time in your life. :) And if you do want to date boys or kiss them, just go for it! It's not weird that you havent (On my cheerleading squad of 14 year olds, almost all of them say they've never kissed a boy) but just go for it! You might have a fun new experience! Be happy as you are-you are DEFINETLY normal!
Sounds perfect to me.
it isn't weird... U R only a normal teen without dangerous vices. it's a good thing.
not weird at all. its good that you've never been drunk and have healthy hobbies, continue dancing and gymnastics and such and keep good company. don't hang around people that could get you into trouble.
I'm the same age as you and pretty much in the same situation. Its not weird.
girly im just LIKE THAT..exacly..like that...ok? ur not wird..wird are the poeple that think ur wird...
Thats not abnormal, thats good. I mean, most teens expirement when theyre older, but its not required. Its best not to get involved in those things. Your still young, so your views on those things might change a bit. But at this point, good for you :)
I'm 13,14 in January. I haven't done any of the stuff above. Some of my friends have but hated it for instance her first kiss was by someone she now hates and it was in a corridor rushed. Its better to wait for the right guy. I have too many friends and no real enimies some people I hate sure. I prefer sleepovers with best friends to 'those parties'. And do dance,drama,singing,photography,writing and theatre. I DO NOT THINK YOUR WIERD!
You sound a lot like me... And i have asked myself that question, but recently I've seen what happens to kids who do that and I'm glad that I'm the way I am!
I'm 15 and i've done none of that. I've dated, but no kissing or drugs or alchohol...
help with what? All my best (: E-mail me if you want to know anything else (:
That's not weird...i'm 14 and same as you...you probably go to school with a bunch of sluts...
You sound just like me!! No ofcourse its not weird! Just be happy u r like that! I'm 14 going on 15
lol..i havent kissed a guy and im 15 XI
That is a really good thing. When I was in my sophomore year of high school, kids in my classes were getting smashed every weekend. They were also lighting paper on fire and shoving it in their noses (why? I have no idea). Just keep going the way you're going. The kids who are doing drugs and getting drunk wont make it very far in life. You're well on your way!
no, it just means that you are a good kid
thats not wierd at all! im the same age as you. i havent done any of those things except for kissing a guy on the lips (but never more than that) im probably really similar too you. i love dance and cheerin. but yeah never think your wierd because you don't do those things. you are the one who will turn out as a better person because you werent involved in that life damaging stuff like alcohol drugs and unsafe sex. keep up the good work your cool and definetly not wierd. i have some friends who do those things but im against it.
i dont think so im exactly like u tho :)
It's not weird... I'm the same!!
You're "normal" in the sense that the rest of the world is insane. :) Getting drunk or dating guys aren't races. The idea is to live a happy life. I get drunk when I want -- and I don't care much for drinking, so that "when I want" is NEVER. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful girl, but I didn't meet her until after college. I'm not much of a party person, but the parties I go to are fun because they're organized by friends. I'm happy because I don't let others decide what makes me happy. If there's something wrong with that, then I don't want to be normal!
honey, you DONT need help! guess what, i'm 16, and i have NEVER been drunk, done drugs, and have never been to any of those "parties" where such is done. i have kissed guys and dated, however. but not Many. i've had 7 boyfriends my whole life. and the one i have now we've been together a year and a half. and i am Fairly popular at school. i have no enemies and lots of friends too. and, when i was 13 i barly got my first boyfriend, while all my other friends had their first in like 6th grade. there's nothing wrong with you. its really GOOD that you don't do drugs or drink. be pure honey, you won't regret it. don't get peer pressure get to you, and don't make your decisions based on what others say are "cool" and boys, your time will come! many girls don't even date throughout highschool at all. my friend, she's SUUUPER pretty. but she has NEVER had a boyfriend or kiss. and she just chooses this. she says she'd rather be with friends, play sports, and have no worries than a boy. fact is, you're NOT a normal teen and thats a WONDERFUL thing because the "normal teen" are the pregnant, druggies and practically alchoholics. don';t change. :) goodluck
ya you don't see many teens like us anymore.
No, that's not weird at all, it's smart. I'm 14, and I've also never been drunk, never tried drugs, and don't like parties that people do stupid things at. I've kissed a boy on the lips though. DX But just a friendly kisses, and I don't get in a relationship just cause everyone else is. I also love dance, gymnastics, animals, not so great at taking pictures, and hanging out with friends and family. Most of the people whou get drunk or do stupid things at young ages will end up regretting it for sure, because they're only doing it to be 'in' when it will really harm them in the long run. Lifes too short to be "cool". Be your lovable, dorky self. =) =P