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cousin sending my boyfriend pictures?

my 19 year old cousin has been sending my boyfriend pictures of herself. NOT inappropriate ones. just like of her face asking how her hair looks or her shirt. my cousin has a boyfriend who she has been with for 10 months and is moving in with him in a few weeks. but, she sends pictures to MY boyfriend. i think this is really weird and unnecessary. what do you think? and my boyfriend of 8 months doesnt have a problem with this. the only reason someone is going to be sending your face to people is to fish for compliments and for people to tell you that you look hot. so what are her motives behind sending them to my boyfriend? whats your opinion? is this ok for her to do? or do you think it should be stopped?

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1. That is weird you should talk to both to get story clear.
2. tell her to stoppp
3. that is very weird and wrong of her to doo, I would ask her to stop and ask your bf to tell her to stop as well.. your right she is just wanting attention from him! u have to stop it now..
4. sounds like your cousin and your exboyfriend are hooking up
5. i agree with mz because you should really tell her that u are going out with him and tell ur boyfriend to tell her to stop
6. oh gosh...seems like ur cousin is trying to hit on ur bf. u shud talk to ur cousin n clear this mess up before it gets really dirty n ugly.
7. You need to tell her to stop immediatly. If she has any respect for you then she will stop. If she doesnt kick her as*.
8. i'd ask her to stop...its a lil inappropriate if shes desperate for someones opinion other than her bfs on how her hair or shirt looks...tell her to send you a pic ;) good luck answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuGzM4zJF2SbjPTOZVn.kzrsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090217151053AAVPrnu
9. Maybe your boyfriend has a good sense of style and she trusts his opinion. It sounds pretty innocent. I would keep an eye on her and him, but remember: they is innocent until proven guilty. If you remain confident and calm about this but maybe let her know it bothers you a little, he will appreciate that you trust him. Don't let them take your kindness for weakness though. If they do anything out of line, cut him out of the picture and limit contact with her so she can't do that with your next partner.
10. I'd grab her phone and toss it in the toilet she doesn't need to be messing around with your boyfriend
11. Well if theyre good friends I suppose this isn't THAT bad but you might want to talk to her and ask her why she does it. Maybe tell her it makes you uncomfortable and that you're fine with them being friends but that you'd appreciate if she wouldn't send him any more pictures.
12. gal all u do cuss ur cuz and kiss ur man and dump him
13. She might be trying to test YOUR limits. Or get with your boy. It depends on her personality, is she normally competitive?
14. Maybe your boyfriend should tell her to stop. If he doesn't that's just like inviting her to send more.
15. she may be looking for male attention 'cause her boyfriend obviously isn't giving her any.
16. To me this is kinda wierd. I mean I wouldn't want my cousin sending pics of herself to my boyfriend. If i were u i'd ask her to please stop because it makes you feel uncomfortable because she should be asking her own boyfriend how she looks. If she doesn't maybe ask ur boyfriend not to open the messages sent to him by ur cousin. I'm sorry if this doesn't help u but i tryed at least!
17. I think its a little weird if you ask me. I think you shuld tell your boyfriend you aren't too excited about her doing that and tell him to agree with you to LIE to your cousin and tell her that your boyfriend is cutting back on text messages because of his bill and she shouldn't send any to him any more! That would piss me off, but it is your cousin. I would tell her off but i don't know how close you two are! That's wrong and rude on her part. Like you said (and you're right) when you send a picture to soembody of your FACE you know she is fishing for compliments, why doesn't she just do that to her own boyfriend and not YOURS! It's childish if you ask me! Good luck hon!
18. I agree that it is definitely weird. Should be sorted out. Well, If i were you i would talk to her. Ask her first of all, why she feels the need to send him anything when she is your cousin. Secondly tell her you feel it is inappropriate that she do such things and would like her to stop. Although she is 19 and its likely she will make a fuss based soley off her age. So, you can either change his #, get her phone and delete his # or change his # in her phone - but if you do that i would be careful u don't change it too much. depending how much she txt him she might notice. Hopefully though you can talk to her civilly and she can accept that she should stop.