My Funny Picture

How come girls with equivilant hotornot.com ratings won't talk with me on eharmony or match.com?

So i put 3 pictures of myself on hotornot.com and my scores were : 7.6 (a mug shot which my ex girlfriend and others said looked "scary") 8.7 (wearing a button down shirt and khakis) 9.4 (a pic my friend took of me w/ my sun glasses on) I'm defintely not a 9.4 by any means, i think the girls must of liked my nice sunglasses :) So lets take the median of my scores, the 8.7. That picture also displayed my body so it put myself fully on display and wasn't deceptive at all. But heres my problem! Every time i "wink" or try to "request communication" using either eharmony or match.com girls reject me. My success rate is miserable! So this is what I did as a test: I took the best picture from each of 5 girls that I really liked on match.com that also REJECTED me and put them on www.hotornot.com. I thought maybe they were just way out of my league, but to my surprise, all of the 5 girls i selected had hotornot scores in the 7's. Not one single 8! Why am i getting rejected so hard? I've also profiled the women that DO contact me and placed their pics on hotornot.com. I'm finding that the only women to initiate a contact with me have relatively low hotornot ratings of 5's or low 6's and are usually EXTREMETLY FAT. Why can't i just get a non-fat normal looking girl-next-door type? What the heck?!

Public Comments

1. they are probably jealous!
2. Maybe they're looking for someone who's more than hot. I'm not saying that you're not more than that--just curious...are you putting that part of you that goes deeper out there? EDIT: I'd like to take back the "not saying that you're not more than that" statement. Your other questions cause me to view you as little more than a vapid and shallow liar with a penchant for making up stories. You're a married virgin who has never dated and who abuses his wife--and now you're posting other people's pictures on hotornot.com without their permission? Oh well, all in good fun I suppose when it comes to posting non-questions. But if this is the way that you really are, and this question is sincere, I wouldn't reply to your contact attempts either.
3. That is just way too long to read, but thanks for the points, I'm off to bed.
4. Perhaps you are putting too much stock into looks? This question makes it appear that you are relying on your supposed good looks to get you by. While it is true that a certain ammount of physical attraction is neccesary in a relationship, having things in common besides looks is even more important. Don't think that these girls are rejecting you just because of your looks, it may just be that they feel they couldn't work with you on another level.